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We all have one or know of one. That person who is just pure toxic to your life. Just like people, friends like these come different shapes and sizes the question is which one is yours? The Scene Stealer The girl that even on your birthday finds a way to make it all about her. Takes all your ideas, is relatively codependent,and when confronting her has the nerve to say you're being too self involved. The Drama Queen Confides in you with her deepest, darkest secrets, but slowly puts her own drama into your life. She has more stories then a sky scraper, and convinces her enemies to be at your house with pitch forks and torches. The Frienemy Basically she loves you today and finds a way to hate you tomorrow The Maneater You tell her about your biggest crush and right when you're ready to make your move she's already made her's The Backstabber Like the maneater, but is quick to throw you under the bus to save her own ass The Barbie Doll She's as ...

So the first date is going really well. Your into him and he's definitely into you. It's time to say your goodbyes for the evening, but a simple kiss goodnight isn't going to suffice. Should you go for it? or call it night? We're only human, and because of this we naturally feed off urges from others when the chemistry seems to be very strong. However, if your are in the hopes of getting a relationship out of this, maybe jumping into sex too soon may not be the best choice. What to Look out For : If you find that he is moving very fast in terms of him being so into you and making you feel amazing don't underestimate him. This doesn't automatically mean he's playing you, but it doesn't mean he's being honest with you either. Sometimes the biggest hints are in the smallest conversations. When playing 21 questions during dinner, pay attention to key points. Ask how long his recent relationship was. If he just got out of a 1-4 year + relationship he...

As we become deeper into the information age, more of us rely on technology for our everyday lives. According to recent statistics, 1 in 5 relationships begin on an online dating site. If you have found yourself contemplating on whether or not you should give online dating a try, keep in mind when it comes to your profile, it should not be taken lightly. Username Believe it or not your username says a lot about you. Usernames such as hot4U26 and Sexykitten69 may question your seriousness as to why your one a dating site. This should also help when you yourself are searching for a match. Be Honest As far as the internet goes, we can be anyone we want to be, but when it comes to dating sites, honesty is the best policy. You wouldn't want to Don't be too General  find yourself totally into what you thought was a great catch to find out later they fibbed quit a few times on their personal description. You want someone to like you for you not their idea of perfect W...

MY TOP 5 WAYS TO GET INSTANTLY CUT!!! When we were little girls we had this list of what we wanted in a guy, but once we got older, we forgot to also focus on what we didn't want. So many of us can get so mesmerized by the pros that we are blinded by obvious cons The Loser This is the guy who has to find a ride for everywhere he goes, is living off unemployment checks and a good time out consists of reckless entertainment. He has no life goals or aspirations,his best friend is Jack Daniels and his first wife is Mary Jane. Mr. Humble This is the guy who feels like he's doing you a favor by going out with him, loves getting attention, the smartest thing he's ever done was finish high school and you find him glancing in any kind reflection from time to time. You have nothing in common with him except the way you feel about his body and not only is he full of himself, but he is quick to drop you when you no longer fit his "image" aka the girl he met las...

"What's Wrong with me?" Normally, this is the first question that goes through our heads when we face one of love's cruelest enemies. Not only does it suck, but it leaves us evaluating ourselves, asking our friends for reassurance, and sometimes it can even lower our self esteem. No matter how much we try to avoid it, at some point in our lives rejection finds us. Whether you've dealt with it one time or twenty, it still hurts and can really change your perception of falling in love. For one to understand how to fix the situation, the question isn't what's wrong with me? it''s what am I doing wrong? They said they aren't that attracted to you So they tell you "You're ugly and I don't see this working out" Okay maybe they didn't say it in that exact context, but no matter how polite one can put it no one wants to feel unattractive. To cope from this, we have to remember there is someone out there for everybody, but tha...