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Have you ever heard of the expression" I was never in love with them but I loved the "idea" of them"? When it came to dating, and getting taken advantage of over and over again I realized I was always just the "idea" they were in love with. This has allowed me to understand that the typical guy (not all) play by the 80/20 rule. Hopefully when you sit down to think of yourself, most likely you will consider that you are a pretty cool chick. Your patient, your not too clingy, you're not afraid to try new things or get a little messy, your honest,reliable, faithful, and maybe a little flirty now and then. That's when you meet a guy who is just amazed of how rare you are. No matter what they say every guy needs a good girl whether they want to admit it or not. After a few dates he seems to be pretty sure that your definitely someone to keep around. That's until the texts are like pulling teeth to for him to reply, he is always busy and lit...