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Let me just cut to the chase and say married men who flirt are NOT monsters. However there is a thin line between harmless flirting and crossing a major line of respect for your significant other. Lets start from the root of the issue of why men flirt. Men are known to be more sexual than woman. Studies have shown that 54% of men think about sex every day or several times a day. vs 67% of woman who think about sex a few times a month . (The Social Organization of Sexuality: Edward O. Laumann, John H. Gagnon, Robert T. Michael, and Stuart Michaels). Even though men think about sex and are thinking about it alot doesn't mean that all men, especially all married men act on each impulse they have. If that were the case every lawyer in America would be booked up until summer 2015. We all know that come that big day of when a man and woman say their vows in front of God and everybody they are making a promise to each other. However, just becau...

Quiz: Answer Yes, or No to the following questions 1. Do you consider yourself to be a very caring person? 2.Are you always there for your friends and family putting them first before yourself? 3.Do people usually come to you for advice or to reconcile whether they know you that well or not? 4. Do you feel you're always giving in all of your relationships and not really receiving the same in return? 5..Are you optimistic about dating people who have many differences? 6. Do you ever find yourself looking for comfort or compassion in people you get close to? If you answered yes to three or more of these questions you may have a strong habit of falling for victimized men. Hero Syndrome, Messiah complex, no matter what you call it. Feeling the need to rescue someone because they are selling you this hum drum story of their life can be one of the most unhealthy habits when dating. It is always paramount to be there for your significant other when they face a h...