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I decided to create the best dating rules I've read from magazines,books,and personal experience. With so much information out there of what to do and what not to do you can easily find yourself with enough resources to write a ten page thesis. Dating Rules 1. When saying goodnight after 1st date smile and thank him for a wonderful time 2. If you forget to say thank you just wait until he contacts you again 3. Keep the conversations short and sweet. Don’t text more than 2 sentences. 4. Have simple feedback to his questions that aren’t too short and have follow up questions  5. If the first date went longer than planned DON’T make it a habit for others try to change it up sometimes 6. Don’t make it so easy to reach you, keep your usual routine and wait a bit to reply. 7. Don’t always hover on the phone speak the highlights of your day and avoid talking  longer than 15 minutes each conversation 8.If he texts o...

I wanted to write this article so you knew the person behind As Told By a Jersey Girl. One of the main reasons why I created this blog was to have a real person share their thoughts and feelings. Not saying that the talented writers of sources such as Cosmopolitan, and Marie Claire for lack of a better term totally suck. I just always felt that the readers don't get a sense of who they are taking advice from. Who is this person, and why should I or anyone listen to them?I want my readers to have an everyday person who has gone through the same problems they have gone through. I don't want my readers to feel like I’m this perfect person and make you feel guilty for making these mistakes.Because the truth of the matter is I am NOT that person. I am not a licensed psychiatrist, nor am I a professional, diagnosing my readers. Every article on my blog is a real (yet common) issue that I have gone through or issues ones close to me have gone through . I wanted to sha...